Thursday, March 23, 2006

Midterm Review

The Manling reached the 24 week milestone this week. I can't believe he's 6 months old, in Mommy-speak, or will be in 2 weeks- the rest-of-the-world-speak. What an unbelievable journey!

At this point, he's rolled over, back to front about 7 or 8 times, usually only to his right side. Maybe like Zoolander, he is destined to become a male model who just can't turn left. People everywhere say he is awfully cute. I tend to agree, but don't want to sound biased. He does have the biggest, brightest blue eyes (thank you, Mark), a nicely-shaped round head (thank you birth canal and lower birth weight), and a mellow disposition (once again, thanks, Mark). He also, according to our doctor, has an unusually broad repertoire of facial expressions for a baby his age; at least that's what he said at his 4 month visit.

He has developed a wide, gummy smile, that he uses on everyone, but no teeth yet, although he does produce copious amounts of drool. He eats rice cereal, oatmeal cereal, bananas, applesauce, and as of today, sweet potatoes, all of which he eats voraciously, again much like his dad. He sits very regally in his Bumbo baby seat from which vantage point he can keep an eye out on his best friends, the cats and the dog. His favorite activities, besides watching his furry siblings, are banging one of his rattles along the Bumbo, breastfeeding, sucking on first 2 fingers of left hand, playing what I call the hand bongos, where he slaps his hands onto each other over and over and over, and screeching at the top of his lungs.

He is currently wearing medium-sized FuzziBunz diapers and 3-6 month clothes. The latter will be changing to 6-12 month size as soon as I can bear to pack up yet another set of tiny baby clothes. He used Pampers Cruisers in size 3 while we were in Vegas - we were amazed how well his clothes fit since they are not as bulky as the cloth diapers but really hatedthe way they felt as well as the chemical super absorbent polymer gel so close to his skin every minute. We have been using BabiesRUs's propreitary brand of wipes, Especially for Baby. These we've found preferable to other brands because they are made of real fabric, and are unscented. Of course, these are as much of a traditional fabric as that they print currency on, but better than the others. A few snuck into the loads of cloth diapers a few weeks back, and unlike the other types that disintegrate, these come out of the washer and dryer looking brand new. Thanks to the wonders of Google, I found several Wipe Juice recipes and have started reusing them. They also are great for cleaning up after feedings. Some, of course, just get too foul to consider washing. The wipe recipe I've been using is as follows:
  • 1 plastic wipe tub
  • about 50-60 wipes, laundered and sterilized by a hot wash cycle
  • 1/8 C light olive oil
  • 2 Tbsp baby wash
  • 2 C distilled water
  • 10-20 drops tea tree oil
  • 2 Tbsp Calendula lotion (I found this at Whole Foods)
Mix all liquids in a small bowl and place prefolded wipes into wipe tub. Pour mix over wipes.

The Manling is doing wonderful in all aspects except for sleeping. We have his crib in our room because his room gets a little colder than the rest of the house. He generally starts out sleeping in his crib, but when he inevitably wakes, I bring him into our bed to eat, and both of us fall asleep during of afterwards. His "schedule" is as follows:
  • Wakes around 9 or 10 am and plays with his hands and coos until Mommy cracks an eye open.
  • Breastfeeds.
  • Mommy checks email, blogs, etc while Manling plays on activity mat
  • BF a small snack
  • Between 11am to 1 pm: naps up to 2 hours but can be as short as 15 minutes; falls asleep wherever he is; sometimes will nap in crib
  • BF and sometimes will eat a small meal
  • Fart around the house or go on errands
  • BF
  • Sometimes will take an evening nap of 30 - 60 min.
  • Dinner: cereal plus a fruit or vegetable, BF to top off
  • Play with Daddy whe he gets home
  • About 10:30 pm gets sleepy, usually BF and drifts off. Will occasionally drift off by himself.
  • Wakes at least once, usually twice; will BF back to sleep.
Is this enough of a schedule? Is he getting enough sleep? I am torn between attachment parenting/co-sleeping and cry-it-out sleeping with baby-led scheduling. I just wish he would sleep longer.

Sunday, March 19, 2006

Vegas Aftermath

Well. We're back from Vegas. It was a strange trip. The Manling was exquisite, the very model of good behavior on both flights. My mom babysat him so we could go out with D&N on Friday night. We went to dinner at Nine Fine Irishmen at the New York New York Casino, then had some drinks at this bar called the Slanted Oyster or something... Twisted Oyster maybe?

Saturday, we ate THE BEST Carl's Jr ever: fried zucchini, chocolate malt shake, jalapeno 6 dollar burger, santa fe chicken sandwich, and nectar of the gods: Dr. Pepper. I only mention this because it was literally the best meal I've ever had practically. Then we hung out with D&N again, meeting their son, G., who is 15 months old and complete dwarfs the Manling. The two of them together looked like models for the master race- both blonde haired, blue-eyed, which the 4 of us are not. Well, I guess Mark is, but still. It was weird seeing a small child who was still so small yet so much bigger than our little dude.

Sunday we went to D.'s parents' house in Henderson. P&B were always so nice to me when I used to camp out at their house and extended hospitality again to us. D.'s brother S., his wife, K., and their 15 month old daughter, M. were there too. It was like a crazy reunion. I almost expected the other 2 sons to come in too, but one lives in San Francisco and the other in New York City.

Monday we headed out with the Nance and Vidalias and the other PA NASCAR fans to the Valley of Fire State Park, which featured tons of petroglyphs and the ubiquitous red rocks. I've never seen so many petroglyphs in one area. Some day I'll learn how to add photos to this thing.

We did a little Strip shopping on Tuesday. We tried to park at the Venetian to go to Sephora, but they had it blocked off. Mark said that some guy who worked there that he talked to said there was a potential car-bomb there, but I don't know if I believe that. We left later that day, after splurging on eye-shadow, and the Manling was, again, the best baby ever on the plane. I was so glad to be home though.

Vegas is NOT a fun town to go to if you have a baby with you. It would have been intolerable if we hadn't had family and friends to visit with. I was in bed by 10 or 11 pm every night. Mark seemed to have a really great time, though, and since Tuesday was his birthday, I'm glad we had gotten to go afterall. Mark played in a few poker tournaments with his friend, D., who had moved to Vegas a few months ago to become a poker dealer. Oddly enough, this was the first year we've gone that Mark had a losing streak. Usually he wins enough to pay for most of the trip. He blew his gambling budget by more than he should have (think Clark W. Griswald) so he's grounded from gambling until 2007. The trip was so anticlimactic, much like this post.

And so lastly, the Shuffle Playlist:

Patsy Cline: San Antonio Rose
A Flock Of Seagulls: I Ran
Frank Sinatra: All Or Nothing At All
NoFX: Shut Up Already
Elvis Presley: I Got A Woman
Kings Of Convenience: Gold In the Air of Summer
Millencolin: A Whole Lot Less
Sting: Angel Eyes
Jesse Dayton: Don't Take Yesterday
The Smiths : I Want The One I Can't Have

Thursday, March 09, 2006

R.I.P. Buster

So back in the day, D. decided to get a pitbull puppy from our tattoo artist, T. Buster was the cutest pitbull puppy ever. He was that reddish color that I love, unfortunately had his little ears cropped, and was the tiniest little puppy. He was the runt, but not for long! That puppy grew and grew and quickly out-weighed me. Dave took him everywhere and doted on that dog. I was a big fan of Buster even though he was much bigger than me. He was a great dog. I was hoping to see him on this visit but the following is what I received from N. today:
Sadly we had to put buster down. Buster had cancer. It was just devastating for us but especially D. I have never seen him so heartbroken and it's something I pray to god we will never go through again. He never let on that he was sick. He went out with D. for for his usual 5 mile hike. D. went to work and when I came home, he collapsed as I walked through the door. I took him to the vet and they x rayed and didn't see anything they thought he was bitten by something so they gave him a steroid shot and he seemed great that night but he wasn't. After countless tests and prayers we went to have surgery for him (they found a "hidden" masses on his organs.) but a final x ray showed one of the masses had opened and his heart was only working at 50% god I can hardly type this I haven't remembered this part of the story in a long time it was awful. We had to put him down it was jan 2nd 2004. We had him cremated and have his ashes with us.

I feel sad to hear this too. So this post is dedicated to Buster. Also, please check out:
Sorry Again

Pre-vacation playlist

This weekend, Mark, the Manling, and I are flying to Vegas. It will be the first time we fly with the Manling, and I am having a lot of anxiety about the "ordeal at the airport." That really sounds like a cage-fighting championship bout! I am really excited because my parents will be there, and they have agreed to babysit the Manling so Mark and I can go hang out with my friends D&N. I haven't seen them, except for a quick blur at our wedding, in about 10 years. I.Cannot.Wait. I can't even begin to explain it!!!!!

In honor of the upcoming vacation, here is an iTunes shuffle playlist:
Primus: Jerry Was a Racecar Driver
Bad Religion: Change of Ideas
Kings of Conveneience: Misread
Sheer Terror: Don't Hate Me Because I'm Beautiful
Beastie Boys: Posse In Effect
Bouncing Souls: Shark Attack
Antiheroes: Alcoholics Anonymous
Murder City Devils: Idle Hands
White Stripes: Apple Blossom
NoFX: Showerdays
Reverend Horton Heat: Big Little Baby
Distillers: Open Sky
Tom Waits: Goin' Down Slow
Screeching Weasel: My Right
Ella Fitzgerald: They Can't Take That Away From Me
The Clash: Ivan Meets G I Joe
Dropkick Murphys: CAptain Kelly's Kitchen
All: She's My Ex
Hawthorne Heights: Niki FM
Cursive: The Great Decay